11 October 2011

People change


(Something Else by Natalie Wood blazer, Cheap Monday white tee, Romwe shorts, Lovisa necklace, Wikifashion tote, Pamela Love rings)

"Sometimes you just have to erase the messages, delete the numbers and move on. You don't have to forget who that person was to you, you just have to accept that they aren't that person anymore."

That quote has given me the courage to delete 2 years worth of inbox messages/memories from my phone that I had been holding on to. At least now it won't lag for 10 seconds every time I press a button. People change and accepting it is hard, but life is too short to be an emo! Leave them behind!

On another note, so glad to have scored this blazer and matching shorts from PitbullMansion for 50% off the *sale* price, winning!


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57 comments:

  1. Love that Lovisa necklace!

    Hope everything is okay x

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  2. it's true. you have to move forward. and honestly, if you aren't growing, you're dying. Congrats on choosing to grow.

    xx
    josie
    www.straightNOchase.com

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  3. :( Totally agree, as hard as it is...you have to accept and move on! You look gorgeous btw :)

    xx
    www.lluviaforallseasons.com

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  4. i agree.. life is too short to be emo! haha.. :) acceptance and moving on are always tough.. sigh, but life goes on. :)

    Janelle
    http://barestudy.blogspot.com

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  5. great quote! love the look

    www.chasedakota.blogspot.com

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  6. Your pink blazer is so cute ! I love your blog :) You'll be hearing a lot from me! Have a nice evening, beautiful!

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  7. i still have a hard time erasing messages from the past

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  8. I totally know what you mean with the quote. It's very sad when someone you thought you knew so well turns into a whole different person. What's worse is when they're influenced by others to become different. It's like...really? Here are a few quotes that you might like:

    "Look back, don't stare"

    "Don't let your past dictate who you are, but let it be part of who you will become."

    Anyway, you look super fabulous! Love that blazer. I've been looking for a neutral colored one and this one you have here is perfect.

    www.ravenhaireddoll.blogspot.com

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  9. I have so many problems deleting old emails. I feel so relieved when I finally click the trash button. Also is that from How I Met Your Mother? They showed an old episode about this weekend.

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  10. I love them both! How did you get 50% off the sale price?! Did they have a promo? Sooooo lucky!!!!

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  11. Haha when it comes to my phone, I think that's the only place where I don't show any hoarder tendencies. I'm well in the habit of deleting messages more than a few months old.

    That blazer is perfect for spring. Loving the necklace too - I like how it's a slimmer take on the chunky collar style necklaces about.

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  12. So good, I used to hang onto all my old text messages too, but ultimately; it's so much better not revisit all the old crap that doesn't matter anymore.
    x

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  13. Aw hope everything is okay lovely. Shall be sending you good vibes (oh and LOVE that blazer, what a score!) xx

    http://modernlegacy.blogspot.com

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  14. I need to learn to delete the ancient messages on my cellphone because it lags too! And that blazer is amazing. :)

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  15. Hello my sweet... I hope everything is okay with you. It's great to know that you've found the courage to move on from whatever has happnened. I'm sure you have a strong support system of friends and family around you.

    Kisses from Hawaii. :D

    xx Love & Aloha

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  16. I love that bag!!
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  17. nice tote! And the pink blazer is a dream, esp. with orange nails. and that is a GREAT quote, so true...

    cheers,
    --Megan//The Martian Tide

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  18. Nice blazer!!

    XO Charlotte
    www.thefashionguitar.com

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  19. amazing!!1 love your blazer and skirt and that bag is so cool!

    http://laughing-in-the-purple-rain.blogspot.com/

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  20. It's a good thing you did that! By the way, I love your blazer!

    http://slackandlack.blogspot.com/

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  21. Love your blazerr :)

    http://www.aforteforfashion.co.uk

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  22. Love you're outfit! Very stylish!
    blackfashionbird.blogspot.com

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  23. This outfit is perfect! I love it!

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  24. BABE :(
    Hope everything is okay. You're too amazing to get hung up on stanky shit. Glad to see you being so proactive. I'd probably lock myself in my room, feed myself through a straw as a cradle myself to sleep and watch Glee to make myself feel good. But I'm a fucking freak.
    LOVEEEE from Melbourne

    xx

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  25. you look gorgeous as usual :)
    xxx

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  26. That is such a cute skirt! I really love the color, looks great :D

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  27. how dare you rub in the warm weather :( hahah
    glad you like the new look blog <3

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  28. The blazer looks gorgeous!

    http://sandra-thepuzzleofmylife.blogspot.com/

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  29. You are reading my mind, down to the lagging phone and 2 years of messages, it is absolutely creepy. Sagittarius? Haha x

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  30. I just loved the words of this post.

    Eda ♥

    www.candyflosscurlscupcakesandcouture.blogspot.com

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  31. I LOVE THIS. Especially the wikifashion tote.

    http://quirkitout.blogspot.com/

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  32. Oh woooow, you look soo stylish!Love your outfit from head to toe!
    I adore how you combined colors!

    hugs and kisses by Mani.

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  33. i simply love this look :)

    www.twinfashionblog.com

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  34. I love your shorts!
    I do keep track of my text messages or fb messages but there are some days that I just want to get rid of them!and yes it takes courage to delete them
    Come and visit my blog and if you like it and find it interesting then why dont we follow each other!
    ♥ Love,
    Anastasia

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  35. Your blazer is gorgeous. I love the blush color.

    http://www.glamkittenslitterbox.com/
    Twitter: @GlamKitten88

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  36. LOVE the blue and the blush!!
    gorgeous look! simple & chic!

    <3Amanda
    feast.fashion.faves

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  37. great quote, nice decision you made!

    i learnt this ages ago.. i think that has resulted in me always being alerted of others just because i wouldnt want to get hurt.. :(

    sydsense.blogspot.com

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  38. I really love your outfit, especially the blazer.

    http://dassida.blogspot.com/

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  39. Gorgeous skirt; love the little canvas bag
    www.rawfashionmagazine.com

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  40. I love the bright nail color :]!

    -Christina

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  41. Ohhh I remember the first time I realised the cause of my lagging phone was my large message inbox content. I really like the wikifashion tote.

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  42. awesome sale shopping
    & yay for the empowering move! <3

    http://avocadosundays.blogspot.com/

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  43. I never keep old messages, definitely not a technological hoarder. Hope everything is ok! Cute bag, wherever did you find that? ;)

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  44. you look so chic and sexy! i love the bright cobalt blue skirt and the blazer is gorgeous as well! yeah, i agree...sometimes you just gotta move on and live your life before it's too late :)

    Beneath the Glass

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  45. this is true!!
    nice outfit!!
    kisses pretty and have a nice day=)

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  46. Lovely blog with great pictures!

    Please take the time to look at mine and follow if you want.

    http://blend-of-life.blogspot.com

    XOXO

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  47. what a nice combination of colours! :D


    Veronica
    blameboogie.blogspot.com

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  48. This post is so encourage!! :) thanks for sharing these thoughts

    Love your outfit!!
    xxx
    http://girlfriendslovelytimemachine.blogspot.com/

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  49. This look is amazing! I saved it as inspiration!
    S.

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  50. I love the blazer and shorts! I hope everything is ok.

    Laura
    whitewinters.blogspot.com

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  51. yep. ball. out. of. park.

    AGAIN. you rule.

    xo

    Bang & Buck

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  52. oh and actually aside from the pictures, hope you're OK. that stuff is always icky and shitey to deal with...so from one stranger to another, chin up, you'll feel a lot better soon :)
    xo

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  53. ahhh how much do you love a sale girl, Something Else is such a terrific label, I have some gorge trousers by her and they are hands down my faves!
    btw, well done on the 'letting go' element here, absolute hats off dear, there's no better feeling, if not immediately then certainly down the road :)
    Gorge colour combo LOVE LOVE x

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